by Sandra D. Wilson, Ph.D.

Do you feel that your problem is not what you do but who you are, caught in patterns of destructive relationships, that you never get enough affirmation, afraid you'll pass bad patterns along to your children, or that God probably loves you less than others? If some of these questions fit you, you may be experiencing shame. Don't carry these emotional scars any longer—let God help you change your patterns of thinking.